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“My favorite moment in life is not knowing where a conversation is going to go.”

— Paula McAvoy

I wrote that down while Paula was telling a story of an unexpected conversation she once had in a northwoods Wisconsin supper club. She was on a panel at NAAPE 2024, responding to Sarah Stitzlein’s 2024 book "Teaching Honesty in a Populist Era: Emphasizing Truth in the Education of Citizens.”

Feeling uncertain about the direction of a conversation but heading there anyway is just so fun. We love a good conversation here at the Center for Ethics and Education. Today’s newsletter, all about conversation, was written for you by Ria Dhingra, our CEE Postgraduate Fellow (and a terrific conversationalist).

—Carrie Welsh, CEE program director

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UW Arboretum, Feb 2025 (photo by Carrie Welsh)

What is Good Conversation?

by Ria Dhingra

“Ah, good conversation — there's nothing like it, is there? The air of ideas is the only air worth breathing.”

― Edith Wharton, The Age of Innocence

I’m still thinking about that line from Edith Wharton’s The Age of Innocence, which I (an English major) finally got around to reading last summer. It’s both a biting critique and a nostalgic elegy for late 1870’s high class New York Society.1 The novel explores feeling trapped by convention and emotional repression. It’s witty and acute in its narration. I found myself laughing and later moved to tears; I cannot recommend it enough.

To me (also a philosophy major), there is nothing better than a good conversation. Good conversations feel more important than ever right now. But what is a good conversation? Is it fun? Fast paced? Philosophical? After all, “there’s nothing like it.” To a philosopher, one who lives in the world of ideas, “it’s the only air worth breathing.”

So, today’s newsletter will explore: what constitutes a good conversation?


Contents:

  • Listen to a short conversation between two good friends

  • Philosopher David O’Brien on not being a wizard with all the answers

  • Good guides for navigating college

  • Harry Brighouse on the dinner party magic of assigned seating


Tennis and Time Travel: Conversation Chemistry

by Ria Dhingra

My favorite conversations are where you lose track of time and get lost in a series of overlapping tangents. Wanting to stay after class to continue questioning a reading. The phone battery dying in the middle of a late-night phone call.

In a newsletter about conversation,

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